#theyre very butchfemme. to me.

[lykoiii]

thinking of these goobers from a motw campaign me and my friends haven't played in months

[balladofthelamb]

i wish there was a butch femme discord i was interested in participating in but the one ive been in for a few years now probably just isnt really for me anymore... i think it started off pretty lovely and as it grew i feel like it's hard for me to see the things people talk about and relate to it at all bc i get the vibe a lot of these people are more online and concerned with online discourse than i am. which is ok! but you know. i just dont think the ethics with how they treat people they perceive to be wrong, are like, ok. in any case i havent said anything in there in a very long time but i also miss my old butchfemme mutuals from my old blog and i miss interacting w them so i wonder where they are and what theyre up to.

[backtothedisaster]

Chelldos 1

REMEMBERING MY ROOTS o7

when I started shipping it if I did: Like late late 2022 i think? Very late 2022 thats so fucking weird to think about

my thoughts: beautiful beautiful toxic yuri. This is my girlcrush who im obsessed with who has never ever ever spoken a word to me. The bad bitch i pulled by ignoring her. All robots and computers must shut the hell up. Good god how can portal be anything but a love story. The facility loves chell so so so so so much its insane

What makes me happy about them: they snuck a butchfemme love story into one of the best selling valve games of all time. And its so so so well written. Glados coming to terms with both her feelings and her humanity towards the end of the game and then choosing to let chell go...good lird

What makes me sad about them: everything. they make me emotional

things done in fanfic that annoys me/things I look for in fanfic: once again im nto very picky I also just dont read a lot of chelldos fic anymore tbh so i dotn really remember oops

Who I’d be comfortable them ending up with, if not each other: nobody 🙏

My happily ever after for them: chell comes back to the facility and they live a happy domestic life

who is the big spoon/little spoon: Well uh. what do you call sleeping on top of your giant computer wife

what is their favorite non-sexual activity: i think chell just likes sitting in the main ai chamber with glados while she does whatever it is she does and they just enjoy eachothers company. I also think chell has been through testing enough times to be very proficient at designing test chambers so she designs a lot of chambers for the co op bots while theyre just #hanging out together

[cyberdragoninfinity]

Axel and Anna for the character ask thingy!!!!

MY MAN AXEL 🔥

Why I like them/why I don’t: TRULY ONE OF THE REALEST ONES axel really carries like a solid half of season 3 on his shoulders and then comes back swinging with the Angst Agonies in season 4 like HE DOES IT ALL. HE'S JUST A RELIABLE DETERMINED GUY WHO WANTS TO FIGHT FOR GOOD. AND his duel disk is a fucking GUN.

What I like about their appearance: i love his eyelashes, theyre a more subtle detail but theyre very charming. Also it's just always a small miracle to see a black anime character whose design isnt Um. Questionable. All Things Considered (looks at girag 8| )

Do I prefer their dub names or original names? i like axel brodie and austin o'brien probably about the same! it's just nice to see him mentioned regardless of name choice.

OTP: again, he and jim are married in my brain for all intents and purposes. they did Not go through all that in The Duel Monster War Zone to not have a little gay thing going on.

NOTP: hm. i dont think ive even SEEN enough axel ships to have one i dont really like??!?

OT3: mentioned when I talked about jim but axel/jim/jesse is pretty fun. hell throw jaden in there too

Favourite card they use: Blaze Accelerator and Tri-Blaze Accelerator are fucking crazy. FIRE GUN(S)!!!!!!!! #BURNDAMAGEMOMENT

Favourite moment they were in: god his duel with the supreme king still goes so fucking hard. i do also like the Psychological Horrors he got put through by mr. T in season 4 STOP STOP HE DOESNT DESERVE THIS

Least favourite moment: all of the early season 3 stuff with him and professor viper but thats less axel's fault and more. god Damn i find professor viper extremely boring lmao

Something I associate with them: combat heavy war TTRPGS... in college AU he likes to DM them <3

AND MISS ANNA KABOOM!!! 🚂🚂🚂���

Why I like them/why I don’t: anna rules so fucking hard...like most zexal girls i wish the show did more with her but just like. the sheer concept of a yugioh girl whose deck isnt full of cards that are solely Pretty Lady but instead GIANT TRAINS and RAILGUNS is so obscenely kickass im so glad she exists. i love that shes tough and pushy and overconfident!!! LET YUGIOH GIRLS BE A LITTLE MEAN!!!

What I like about their appearance: she is so CUTE!!! i love her sporty hair and white + pink + red color palette and her FUCKING CANNON SHE RIDES ON. it's such a delightful yugioh girl design

Do I prefer their dub names or original names?: SORRY ZEXAL SUB BUT NOTHING IS GOING TO GO HARDER THAN "ANNA KABOOM" I MUST SAY.

OTP: your honor anna/rio is MY yuri ship with two girls who didn't interact you must understand i like them So Much. butchfemme couple... fire and ice....snowpiercershipping..... i need to draw them again

NOTP: anna/yuma is like. it's not even bad anna is just such a baby butch to me this ship doesnt even cross my radar. she likes women.

OT3: ok now rio/anna/tori might be cooking.

Favourite card they use: GUSTAV MAX MY BELOVED. MOST INSANE ACE MONSTER ESPECIALLY TO GIVE TO A YUGIOH GIRL!!! TANK-TRAIN-RAILGUN BLAST!!!

Favourite moment they were in: i do love her tag duel with yuma where she duels her grownass adult woman friend and her husband and said woman's ace monster is the fucking Titanic and her husband's is the Hindenburg. i think about that duel like once a month.

Least favourite moment: like it's cool she got to team up with the sparrow and duel mizar but it still does kind of suck ass that she died and went to hell like half the rest of the cast >:( SHE COULD HAVE STOPPED IT

Something I associate with them: LEMON_DEMON_MY_TRAINS.MP3

[redheadbigshoes]

it feels kinda isolating not being into butches...

i dont even know if I'm like fem4fem or something ?im just not into like masculinity, but almost every other lesbian I meet n most lesbian talk i see is about butches or butchfemme kind of stuff

I know a decent amount of lesbians personally now and theyre almost all butch or butchfemme and i hear them talk about how like nonbutch lesbians are all thats on tv and stuff, but like I know less people like me irl then I do butches or femme4butches, I guess I just wish I knew more fem lesbians irl...

where are my girl gamer lesbians, my skater lesbians, my rocker lesbians... not that any of them cant be masculine... idk I think butches are cool people I just wish I knew other lesbians that like women in cute dresses and stockings and lazy cute homewear and go crazy for cool fem gals...

It might be because I'm transfem that I'm not like, attracted to masculinity in women? and I guess not understanding how so many lesbians are just... makes me feel even more estranged from cis lesbians I guess...

Actually no another transfem lesbian I know was talking about wanting a hot butch the other day so maybe I'm just weird for being into fem gals idk...

In my experience is very difficult to find fem lesbians irl, feminine sapphics are usually bi or pan.

Idk if you live somewhere where there’s gay/lesbian bars and clubs, but that’s a great way of trying to meet fem lesbians. There’s also an app that’s like a dating app but for friendship called Yubo.

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[cruelsister-moved2]

I was wondering if you could elaborate on what you mean by you don’t think femme4femme is a thing? Like do you not agree with it or not think people have that experience, or is a historical or terminological disagreement?

no like theres plenty of feminine women who want to fuck other feminine women it just doesnt really have much to do with the butch/femme subculture and like most people who are going out of their way to announce that they're femme4femme are just doing it in a defensive like uhmm i only like pretty cute soft pink uwu girlsss 🥺 way thats just terminally irritating 😭 ur the default majority already so it like comes hand in hand with this idea that butch4femme couples are like somehow privileged and proximal to heterosexuality or something ... and to me in that context femme is just meaning like that ur a feminine woman in purely aesthetic terms so like idrc if ur using that word to describe who u wanna bang in the appropriate context, but i dont think it constitutes a femme identity in the butchfemme way which literally only exists in the first place out of courting rituals between butch and femme women. so yeah its historical/terminological for sure, hopefully what i said makes sense<3

i do think its worth considering like how internalised lesbophobia and the stigmatisation of gnc women etc might be affecting this and like i say, a lot of the like aggressively femme4femme ppl are young gays w a lot of internalised lesbophobia who need to make it clear that theyre like an acceptable pretty soft whatever lesbian not like those dykes, but thats not me saying that ur problematic for not fancying butches or something - like were the roles reversed id be the exact same bc feminine women just arent what's attractive to me n thats fine. but the reason a lot of our hackles go up at that term is because through experience we've come to associate it with dehumanisation of our partners and dismissal of our desire, etc. a lot of ppl have some kind of variation and maybe like really androgynous girls or all sorts of girls who are both feminine and masculine or whatever whereas i feel like if ur out the gate dismissive of anyone whos not hyperfeminine that is just to me more likely a sign that uve got some stuff to deal with. but thats for u & like ill never dismiss someone purely based on who theyre attracted to thats crazy but if ur framing it in a way thats clearly defensive against proximity to the gnc women in ur community or something then yeah i dont think you have any right to the subculture which they built and defended as a safe space from people exactly like u!! i hope that makes sense and any follow up qs are totally welcome if i said anything that confused u or u dont agree, i hope i dont come off hostile or anything 🥺 also i just realised i have a really bad habit of oscillating between second and third person when i start talking about an abstract group so jic im not referring to YOU, anon but to like a vague ye <3

[mikarchive2]

so. i dont follow this show only seen a couple eps but. everyone puts it on my dash and says it’s gonna become gay eventually. so if nandor is femme. then does that make guillermo his butch top or going to be.

hi ! first of all sorry to disappoint you but i dont think nandermo will become canon the same way stede and ed are - at least not in this season, as nandor is supposed to look for a wife in S4 . and as far as i know the creators of the show are reluctant to make them kiss or have sex, claiming that what they have is 'more than that' or whatever

( still, wwdits is not a straight show - ALL the main characters are canonically bisexual and id say its worth watching even if nandermo isnt exactly canon . i know some people dont like the format and if thats yr case then i understand but also it does get progressively better, season three was my favourite )

regarding butchfemme nandermo ( which was majs [ chateauofmymind ] idea, id never figure all this out on my own ), i guess its more of a headcanon than a theory - theyre obviously not a butchfemme wlw couple in the show . its a fun way to look at their dynamic though ! guillermo does all the household chores, which is normally considered a feminine activity, but he also takes care of nandor and protects him and is the one with more control and power in the relationship, even if he chivalrously lets nandor think otherwise . and nandor is simply a very high maintenance femme who whines in a dramatic way when he doesnt get his way, lets guillermo brush his hair and dresses in a much more ornate way than guillermo . looking at him through the butchfemme lens even makes his behavior in season one less annoying - thats not an arrogant guy pushing his servant around, just a high femme and her high femme antics

its not a very extensive theory, basically all we have is this post lol but butchfemme means everything to me so who cares theres such a lack of dykes in this world so sometimes you just have to hit some men with a butchfemme beam yknow <3